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Perfectionism in 3 Minutes

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When you think of the word perfectionism, you might think of those you know (or maybe yourself) who are anal, OCD, and hard to work with. Perfectionism is when you aren't satisfied until every little detail is up to your standard of "perfect." The problem with this is that perfection is subjective, and our subjective judgment changes from day to day. So while something in your eyes may be perfect today, tomorrow you opinion could completely change. Thank you guys for watching! It's so awesome to see my subscriber base grow. Also let me know what you think of my new style below in the comment sections :). Subscribe To My Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoFWz1e3VXKOoJ-E5cep1Eg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Thought.Monkey.Community/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thought.monkey/ Be the first to know about my latest video by signing up to my email list: http://facebook.us16.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=f942e490173f7a5bdbd5cecb3&id=7694111750 Sources: 1. Isaac Newton removes name: https://books.google.com/books?id=Ppv5h4sgAYwC&pg=PA27#v=onepage&q&f=falsez 2. Definition of perfectionism: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/perfectionism 3. Perfectionism correlation with suicide: https://digest.bps.org.uk/2017/07/27/perfectionism-as-a-risk-factor-for-suicide-the-most-comprehensive-test-to-date/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23889574 4. Instagram making people feel bad: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/oct/14/perfect-girls-five-women-stories-mental-health
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chewed up gum (4 дня назад)
If a test comes and i know i wont be able to do it , even if i study hard , i'll just wont care
Angel Zhou (1 месяц назад)
It look werid
Unicorn Review (2 месяца назад)
The thumbnail made me cringe
EmilyAuto (3 месяца назад)
I think I'm an exellentist, lol.
itsVollx (3 месяца назад)
the front nail really frustrated me
Purple Kerble (4 месяца назад)
That thumbnail really pissed me off
JAIDYN RATTRAY (7 месяцев назад)
I have SDD it is something like ADHD or ODD it stands for social difience dissorder
The Underscored Double (7 месяцев назад)
Void has no qualities. If it has no qualities, it can have no negative qualities. If it has no negative qualities, it is perfect. Therefore, nothing is perfect. Literally
Adolph Hitler (8 месяцев назад)
Please don't stop making videos!
Dashaa F. (4 месяца назад)
Your username is shit. You should be ashamed.
sicktoaster (9 месяцев назад)
Does it matter if it's subjective? Who else's opinions do I have to go by? Obviously I'm going to act to fulfill my own preferences as perfectly as possible. By definition what else could I do? Even if I decided to go against that then that would mean my preference was to feel like I'm going against my own preferences and so I would really just be deceiving myself. If I decide to just be like "Good enough" with something I'm working on it's because that was my preference, because I see what ever time energy or comfort I'm saving myself as being a more perfect balance of priorities than otherwise. So in the end the inescapable truth is we're all perfectionists and the only way to 'be' anything else is through self-deception, and then you're still a perfectionist, you just don't realize it. The real problem is not perfectionism, but rather that people enslave themselves to their points of view. They are unaware that they could just change to another point of view. Doesn't mean you should stop trying to be perfect. Having no standards at all would be boring and then you're trying to be perfect at not caring about anything. But it's important to realize that the standards come from yourself. The video seems to deal mostly with appearance perfectionism. While focusing on that standard is just as valid as any other personally I've always found that sort of pursuit boring.
Thought Monkey (9 месяцев назад)
I think you hit the nail on the head when you say that people enslave themselves to their points of view. In fact my next video is going to be about this idea exactly (and is more political than Instagramy) lol
Faktum Stream1Beatz (9 месяцев назад)
Can we please change the thumbnail...? 😥 The pencil(s) is/are the wrong way.
PaleRider559 (9 месяцев назад)
Just finished my first Social/Political video, and I'm posting this on all my favorite channels because these are the people who inspired me. I'd really appreciate any feedback! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fbouRBW5ys
Oliver CHURCH (9 месяцев назад)
Good video dude <3
Thought Monkey (9 месяцев назад)
Appreciate the love
Goku Black (10 месяцев назад)
My picture for 3 minutes
Blue Hair (10 месяцев назад)
That video actually helped me a lot! Please do more like these.
Marco Nauokat (10 месяцев назад)
*EVEN* while watching Ted Talks hehehe!
twn5858 (10 месяцев назад)
Politicians trying to protect us? That's a stretch buddy! They aren't trying to protect us. They're trying to control us.
Thought Monkey (10 месяцев назад)
Fortunately I believe there are some politicians that actually have our best interest in mind. Unfortunately they may be in the minority.
MrFraserLaser (10 месяцев назад)
i dont have OCD, i have CDO..its kinda like OCD except the letters are in alphabetical order
Infinite Wav (9 месяцев назад)
MrFraserLaser lol
Creuilcreuil _ (10 месяцев назад)
i am a perfectionist, peoples always treated me with high expectation, and i can tell you i am aware that's perfection don't exists but i can help it, i fall again and again for this, and let me say that's a nightmare, every time you start a project if i can be sure to succeed to 100% i will just give up, and think to myself, you really are a piece of shit, I've wonder my whole life how do people do to stop something when they know they can do better, even writing this comment since i am not a native speaker and never properly learned English, i will check and recheck everything every time and if i see a thing that's only by a little bit not what i wanted i will consider this a total failure and give up
Ben Fisher (8 месяцев назад)
Maybe this will help you: I am a perfectionist aswell and what helped me to give up on perfectionism in small thinks (like for example in writing a comment on the internet) was the following idea: As a perfectionist you seek perfection in life. But you cannot be a perfect individual if you fail to realise and take into consideration that perfection doesn't exist in nature (and you are part of nature). So, you can only be an overall perfect individual if you accept that imperfection is part of life. Or in other words: If you always seek perfection in everything you do and give up in the moment you realise that you cannot achieve it then your own actions make you imperfect. Instead, the next time you start a project you should do your best and bring it to an end. If you think that the result isn't perfect, just accept this fact and feel good with it because by having the ability to accept that your result cannot be perfect, you as a personality are coming one step closer to being overall perfect.
Thought Monkey (10 месяцев назад)
I consider myself to be a bit of a perfectionist as well. Learning to let go of the need to have everything perfect is hard to do. I feel your struggle :).
Pursuit of Wonder (10 месяцев назад)
I really like your differentiation between being a perfectionist and "excellentist." I believe it's important to strive for perfection, but equally important to acknowledge and accept the idea that we can never truly achieve it. In doing so, we will be able to execute our best efforts and not restrict ourselves to stagnation and hopelessness.
Marco Förster (1 месяц назад)
Its the 80:20 rule :) know where the "perfection" stops to be real and not only a dream you never reach and waste all yout energy ...
Thought Monkey (10 месяцев назад)
I completely agree. Striving for perfection is an impossible path. But striving to do you best is completely in your control.

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