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Violence against women—it's a men's issue: Jackson Katz at TEDxFiDiWomen

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Jackson Katz, Phd, is an anti-sexist activist and expert on violence, media and masculinities. An author, filmmaker, educator and social theorist, Katz has worked in gender violence prevention work with diverse groups of men and boys in sports culture and the military, and has pioneered work in critical media literacy.Katz is the creator and co-founder of the Mentors in Violence Prevention (MVP) program, which advocates the 'bystander approach' to sexual and domestic violence prevention. You've also seen him in the award winning documentary "MissRepresentation." To learn more about TEDxFiDiWomen, whether to attend, volunteer, speak or sponsor, please click on the following link! http://tedxfidiwomen.herokuapp.com/ To learn more about Jackson Katz, please visit http://www.jacksonkatz.com In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)
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atticus319 (1 час назад)
Men need to stand up and support women because women can't look after themselves. So for all their talk of equality, it's clear that women are useless and should be treated like children.
Darling Princess (4 дня назад)
Thank you, Sir. I believe it is a leadership issue as well. My sons are defenders of women because of the leadership of their father. One even taught women's self defense classes for two years before entering the service. Thank God for men of valor and integrity who value the lives and dignity of other people.
Jacqueline Aldana (4 дня назад)
I LOVE WHAT THIS MAN HAD TO SAY! WOW SO TRUE! WE NEED TO DO BETTER! FOR OUR KIDS, GRANDKIDS, AND OUR COUNTRY. LET'S NOT GO BACK IN TIME WE SHOULD BE MORE UNITED AND SUPPORTIVE OF ONE ANOTHER. WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE AND ONE WORLD.. LETS SHARE IT IN PEACE INSTEAD OF FIGHTING ABOUT PETTY THINGS!
Teresa Baptista (9 дней назад)
Excellent, Jackson Katz! Can you make sure Jordan Peterson watch this, please? Now, no kidding, I think "men should short skirts..." (Shania Twain ).
Johnny America (13 дней назад)
Facts do not support "so many" men. Jackson is looking for a quick route to being a champion of women by throwing men under the bus.
Lili Nieves (13 дней назад)
i wonder if he was a "previous" abuser?
Glenda Baugh-Johnson (15 дней назад)
Thank-you for acknowledging the importance of men to acknowledge violence against women
Cescafied (16 дней назад)
What an incredible talk.
M R. (16 дней назад)
Finally, for 30 years I've been askng about a man, man enough to challenge other men (and women).... He nails it.
Ashia (18 дней назад)
THANK YOU!!!
Brita Kurowski (21 день назад)
I’m grateful that he did this talk. But I don’t believe that toxic men will ever change their minds. I don’t believe that most men have the integrity to think of women as equals. And I’m tired of remembering the abusive men in my life. I have tried to kill myself many times but I’m not brave enough to actually go through with it. My therapist is a kind man who does what he can for me but I’m starting to see that in order to live a functional life, one must completely disregard their emotions. No man would ever care that I was abused. But neither would any woman. I think that tragedy is just. . . Normal. And the only way society will consider a human normal is if you shut up and swallow the pain. I’ve swallowed the pain. I’m starting to choke on it. Maybe the killers have the right idea. If I kill enough people. Maybe they will finally believe me when I say I need to die and do me the favor. Because this is the way the Great Generation made our society. This is what the baby boomers encourage and perpetuate; that sexism is inherent. That women deserve to suffer. And that only the strong survive. Who would want to live in this?
Durato Uzumaki (25 дней назад)
Men who don't want to know the truth aren't men
Wytchfinde (20 дней назад)
You don't get to decide that.
Shay (26 дней назад)
Comedy should not have limits nor red lines.When it comes to comedy nothing (but nothing) is sacred. Agree with everything else.
jenna azelia (29 дней назад)
WOMAN CANNOT DEFEND THEMSELVES NOR INFLICT THE AMOUNT OF DAMAGE A MAN CAN WITH THEIR BARE HANDS! Why is this so difficult for men to understand?
Wytchfinde (20 дней назад)
Apparently, you haven't really studied domestic violence in reality very much, or anything else for that matter.
Tarra Ismail my vloging channel (1 месяц назад)
His out of breath all the time his taking to much energy to talk hats down to him for speaking out we need more people like him 🙂💖
Paul Leimer (1 месяц назад)
The solution to this is not about changing the definition of manhood. In fact, it is about instilling in young boys how to be a proper man. The biggest contributing factors to boys raised to be violent towards women or other men results from bad parenting, and more specifically, bad fathering. Young boys need a father as a role model, to show them how to treat women and how to be a gentleman. As more families break up, and more children are raised without a dad, the issue of men's violence is only increasing.
Quix Nix (1 месяц назад)
It started well... I think he is good at heart, and I agree with his solution, but not his way of sending the message. We also have to say no to the radicalism that has swept through feminism (Which is sexism...). It is getting harder and harder for men like him to get their message heard in any gender debate. For the recoed I want to have a personal conversation with this man.
Mgtow Boo Boo (1 месяц назад)
violence against men is a woman's issue. A man is more likely to be killed, more likely to be assaulted. When are women gonna stand for men?
Wytchfinde (20 дней назад)
Good question. Most people (men and women) seem to just think about women. Not men.
Kristin l (1 месяц назад)
Thank you so much for speaking out. Your passion is contagious .
Guddygu G (1 месяц назад)
So you're telling me I have to censor my jokes because some people are sensitive? A joke is a joke nothing more nothing less. What ever happened to sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt?
Maxime Veilleux (1 месяц назад)
Important Question : "Why many (most?) beaten women always go back to their beater even with all the resources they have at their disposal ? " Speaker point of view : "Let's not ask that question, it's not getting us anywhere" Really ? If you refuse to investigate that question, answer it, and integrate it to your explanation, you are being dishonest and biased. This Talk is anti-men.
R Scull (24 дня назад)
Maxime Veilleux Learned Helplessness
Sienna The Grub’s DIYs And FUN ! (1 месяц назад)
It should be violence against everyone not just women
MegaGug 95 (1 месяц назад)
I’m a man and I was physically and emotionally abused by a female preschool teacher. What she did in person ended 20 years ago, but the aftermath of it still affects me today. I was the only student in the class that could speak (it was a special needs class). Every day, she’d pick me up by the chair I was sitting on and literally drop me into a corner. She’d hit other kids in the class and cuss them out, and all the while, I’d hear them screaming and crying. And when I’d turn my head to see, she’d smack me on the side of my head so I’d face the wall. Ever since then, I’ve been unable to be around small children, especially kids 5 and under. I don’t want to remain silent anymore. I want the world to know who she is and what she did. Her name is Dina Holder and she lives in Brentwood California.
Dawn Gambino (1 месяц назад)
He is very brave and makes some really good points that very few people would make in public
Justine Goals (1 месяц назад)
Brave guy he touched just very uncomfortable subject for men
Wytchfinde (20 дней назад)
It's not brave when you echo the narrative.
marco sarinana (1 месяц назад)
He's a little shaky.
Margarita Marunyak (1 месяц назад)
I love it when the topic of conversation has something to do with women, man start yelling "why are you not talking about our problems" in the conversation about women. Lovely logic, has to be about men everywhere and about everything. Feminism is bad for them, of course because for wrong doings to women will get punished, and they don't want that. Statistics don't lie, but even with statistics they have to show the finger. Defending men's rights? What fights? Women have had basic human rights for five minutes, but men want feminism to fight for their rights too. Who took them away? Men did, to fight your own kind then about your fights. Feminism isn't about equal rights, it's about rights for women. You men rule the world, women only a little bit and you're still trying to take that away. Women are human beings and we will continue demanding and fighting for our rights to live as human beings, and as an accessory for a man.
Venusbabe66 (2 месяца назад)
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Finally!!! A REAL, brave, strong of character, morally and emotionally intelligent MAN telling the world what correctly needs to be said and done to those in power, so EVERYONE can benefit. This is what women and minorities have wanted to say and be heard for ever. Hopefully with more men like this wonderful man changing the very fabric of society's power structures, there may be hope for humanity.
Madison Purkis (2 месяца назад)
i just want to know what i can do, please someone send me a video or make one. there's so much talk but i need someone to help me know what i need to do how i can help. is there more than talk? is there a way i should talk? please send help i know whats going on ok i am only 15 and i can see that this is going on. but idk how to help or stop it
Infallible Lukas (2 месяца назад)
when he said "mary's very identity is now what was done to her by john in the first instance".... i felt that
Lady Bella (2 месяца назад)
Because we do live in a patriarchy and men/boys are not being taught to always focus, that they owe their lifes to women, so they should treat them like goddesses and not be obstreperous to them - not mentally or physically.
Catherine King (2 месяца назад)
Silence is a form of consent.
Catherine King (15 дней назад)
I'm sorry I didn't make my self clear, I'm NOT talking about those who speak up and support victims, I'm was talking about people who watch violent acts against women and do nothing.  I guess it was easier to leave a snarky comment, then to stop and think and ask what did my comment mean.
Wytchfinde (20 дней назад)
So that's why there are many comments here, huh?
fundie. sam (2 месяца назад)
At first he sounds so nervous you can even feel it through his breathing
Misty Celt (2 месяца назад)
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT IT NEEDS TO CHANGE NOW!!!!
Kyra Vukov (2 месяца назад)
This was awesome!
Amanda Vieira (2 месяца назад)
👏👏
Dell 15 (2 месяца назад)
Its true that women are treated bad, but we cannot hide the fact that women wants more power, Men and Women arent equal. God created them different, Now some men support Feminism and want Women to take over, just like they had in the Educational system where women teachers take advantage of boys.
Yasmine Colon (2 месяца назад)
I'm really straight and thank God to know I was on the right path for real.
Yasmine Colon (2 месяца назад)
Straight
abby (2 месяца назад)
i feel like people on every single side of this whole topic need to strive to listen with their minds and not their hearts. they need to take away all of the things that they feel about the topic that they have already created opinions of and LISTEN to each other out of logic and respect. i think people need to stop filling in the blank spaces of others' arguments and should stop assuming what others are thinking and really, really try their hardest to understand. i truly believe that having understanding and feeling understood are the keys to the beginnings of working together... there's a lot of individuals who take everything somebody is saying and turn it into an emotional and an angry sounding mush. i believe people need to think with their own minds and look at the facts/data. its fine to not agree with every single thing somebody is saying, and i think certain individuals should recognize that and stop letting others' different opinions make them feel so hurt. i think some should try to learn to think/speak with their own individual brains.
Melany Hope (2 месяца назад)
THANK YOU Brother
delryn256 (2 месяца назад)
"Isn't your silence a form of consent and complicity?" I agree. Victims of DV need to speak out and get those bastards thrown in jail. I think that would be a lot more effective than trying to mentally reprogram the entire population for something that a few bad people are doing. Violence is wrong, and should be punished no matter who is committing it.
Kassandra Rahman (2 месяца назад)
I am very interested to learn more about what you are doing. I think it is great that you are teaching leadership in the Marines. My ex husband was a Marine. I tried to report what was going on and was told it was “alleged”. I hope you can change that mindset
wouldbegood (2 месяца назад)
Aren't low I.Qs, abuse, mental health issues and lack of male role models responsible for most of these problems. I don't see peer pressure working as people with these issues will reject society and find others with their viewpoint or learn to hide it better. If anything I imagine allowing men to be more masculine and excel further in the abilities in which men excel will allow them to harness their masculinity and produce better role models. Shaming men will surely just encourage the behavior. Basic psychology reward good behavior, don't dwell on bad behavior.
Kitty Black (3 месяца назад)
Good to know some men are working on this because as we women know they are the only ones who can really stop it from being "cool, ok, normal, justifiable, acceptable, permissible, expected, manly behaviour." MEN HAVE TO HEAR IT FROM MEN. They HAVE TO hear it from their own ROLE MODELS, their FATHERS, friends, celebrities, sports heroes, BOSSES. Men in positions of power. Politicians, shop keepers, restaurant and bar owners, men's trade organizations, doctors, mechanics... There is a lot to UNDO and I know that I HAVE to participate and hold men in my life accountable for their behaviour including the tradesmen I have to deal with regularly which I have found to be extremely challenging and even frightening. I have reported trade men's behaviour to their supervisors and had their supervisors defend them. I've reported harassment by male co- worker and been told I'm over reacting by female supervisors. I have no contact with my older brothers because of their abusive behaviour. My whole life has been deeply affected by men's denial of responsibility for their abusive, intimidating and corrosive behaviour. They can fix it by taking responsibility which is the hallmark of maturity and real strength of character.
Dr Doggo (2 месяца назад)
You talk like men are the only abusers. This is the 21st century. If a woman is beating a man she will even be encouraged on the spot, "girl power". My life in recent years has been affected by women's denial of responsibility for their abusive, somewhat intimidating, and very corrosive behavior. These cunts are very present, but feminists and twatbags refuse to acknowledge this issue.
Alexandra Filas (3 месяца назад)
Just saying, any guy who is open about his support of feminism, gets 100x hotter
Lucia De Melo (3 месяца назад)
wow this video brought up a lot of things that no one thinks about and yet is so vital to helping people, both abusers and the abused.
Xeno Phon (3 месяца назад)
Feminism is the definition of sexism. It the female version of chauvinism and no less acceptable. You spout off about equality? How dare you, you dont want equality. All women do is try and fix problems for themselves, despite equality being an issue for everyone. If you werent sexist you would be campaigning for equality and rights for all, not just your gender. Shame on you.
DrewYetti (2 месяца назад)
Correction: women want men to fix problems their women's problems while ignoring men's own problems.
Lynn .D (3 месяца назад)
When the victims are permitted to puta bullet in the heads of these men and are commended for it ! Men will change their behavior
Xeno Phon (3 месяца назад)
You do realize how powerless you are right? Whenever a woman wants equality, they have to ask men to give it to them. It can be taken away at any time of our choosing and you can all be dominated again with ease, with women have no power to stop us. Tread carefully.
Lori J (3 месяца назад)
Interesting propective he really sympatizes with those he supports he is unbiased and fair giving a voice to both sides
KrazyKain (3 месяца назад)
A talk on toxic masculinity before it has a name (or before that name was commonly used in popular culture). Sad it's still just a relevant today.
Mike (3 месяца назад)
i cut off my balls and the blood wont stop what should i do??
Humble_Hanna23 (2 месяца назад)
Mike Put a bandaid on it, it'll stop
K- Droj (3 месяца назад)
This guy gets it big time, I love it.
K- Droj (3 месяца назад)
All women want is for men and women to treat each other with love and respect and to SHARE THE POWER.
K- Droj (3 месяца назад)
Johnny Blotus ..... I would never speak for feminism, gave those idiots up years ago.
Johnny Blotus (3 месяца назад)
Wait, are you speaking for women, or are you speaking for feminists? There is an obvious difference.
gwen keto (3 месяца назад)
This man is absolutely correct. Our culture also needs the Christian church to speak these truths because the church keeps women’s heads drowned under water.
Johnny Blotus (3 месяца назад)
I keep women's heads under my pants
Corin Bryant (3 месяца назад)
Im 60 40 against him men are not the problem
Tais Osorio (3 месяца назад)
Would it be possible to create subtitles in portuguese? I would like to share it but most my friends don't know English in this level. Thank you!
Thobeka Mhlongo (3 месяца назад)
Wait, why am I not subscribed to this channel?
connann barbarin (3 месяца назад)
Violence against women IS JUST VIOLENCE AND IF YOU FEAR VIOLENCE GET A GUN God Created Men and Colt Made Them Equal!
connann barbarin (3 месяца назад)
MGTOW
SmokerStar (3 месяца назад)
I hate men so much, and I'm a male myself. Only 5 percent of murders are committed by women, while 95 percent of murders are committed by men. Also I'm pretty sure the gender statistics for murderers is most likely nearly the same statistic for how many men and women are rapists. And also I'm pretty sure the gender statistics for murderers and rapists is most likely nearly the same statistic for how many men and women are domestic abusers. Another reason why I hate men is because a lot of them are misogynists, and thus they are the reason why sexism exists. Women generally have a more loving nature than men do, and they have more compassion. So that's why women are better than men are. So I think the world would be a better place without men.
SmokerStar (3 месяца назад)
lachdach Nothing is wrong with me. What I'm saying is true.
lachdach (3 месяца назад)
SmokerStar wtf is wrong you?
Aci Sweet (3 месяца назад)
omg ur an Angel I love u this is an angel of God u help me I love u ur very goodlooking
Tatiana B. (3 месяца назад)
Respect!
pyrointeam (3 месяца назад)
I'm glad he has no hayfever, that many strawmen he is building.
PissedFechtmeister (3 месяца назад)
For the past 50 years women have been saying, "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle," "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man," "Anything a man can do women can do...better," and "A woman has to work twice as hard as a man to get half the credit; fortunately it's easy." (((Katz))) needs to stop being a sexist and let womyn handle this.
PissedFechtmeister (3 месяца назад)
How are you going to stop us?
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
How about you stop creating the problems in the first place and we won't need you to fix them
PissedFechtmeister (3 месяца назад)
Women don't need men to solve their problems. At least that's what they keep telling us.
ccdj504 (3 месяца назад)
Abuse against all people in a society(how do we decrease it?) = lady problems
Mekaro Keera (3 месяца назад)
Can Trump see this
Herman Langland (3 месяца назад)
Men should not get more cred for talking about this issue than women. But we need more of us to do so badly.
Sarah Dowie (3 месяца назад)
I love this so much ! If all men stood up and spoke like this it would help so much!
Speaking Truth (3 месяца назад)
Sarah Dowie it’s sad we need men because when women say it it’s ignored
Jimmy Gorokhoff (3 месяца назад)
I think we should talk more about abuse and violence on every gender by any gender. I don’t hear that much about abused men for instance...
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
You're right, we should be focusing on the abuse of men. However, 96 percent of perpetrators of abuse are men. So your fight for justice is also against male aggressors.
Jimmy Gorokhoff (3 месяца назад)
What can one do for gender violence prevention?
Golden Angele (4 месяца назад)
Everybody should share this with as many people possible, to spread the message, and the right one! He explains everything perfectly and is so inspiring in the passion in his voice!
Kat S (4 месяца назад)
Love this guy, one of the good ones!
Smuffer (4 месяца назад)
I've never, not once, seen a speech with so much fervor in TED.
Johnny Blotus (3 месяца назад)
I've never, not once, seen a speech with so much stupidity in TED.
Raloona (4 месяца назад)
A "real MAN" doesnt need to dominate others- He is Master of himself and thats what good Leadership is about. - "Human dignity shall be inviolable".
Fandar (4 месяца назад)
We NEED to end violence against women. Men have killed and injured way too many women. Why would you ever hit your wife or girlfriend? Stay away from women if you have violent tendencies towards them.
Fortified Mentality (4 месяца назад)
Yeah, but what about when these "victims" were the ones who started the violence/abuse? Then after years of it the man snaps and becomes the abuser? The woman gets off free and wrapped up in cotton wool.
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
Fortified Mentality I know you're a closed-minded misogynist but I'm going to try engaging with you regardless. There are two diseases - A and B. The chances of dying from A are 95% and that of dying from B are 5% - which disease would you want cured first? Male violence is disease A
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
really? please cite these studies?
MRWorldGuy (3 месяца назад)
It doesn't happen rarely. All studies done by universities show that domestic violence is a two-way street.
Speaking Truth (3 месяца назад)
Fortified Mentality nobody is denying that men can be abused. What they are pointing out is that although men can be abused they very rarely are. That doesn’t mean they should be ignored however of course the issue of the majority needs to be addressed and will be addressed more.
SJ Lee (4 месяца назад)
This is so healing...I'm happy that there are men that care about women's empowerment. THANK YOU.
RICK SWEET (4 месяца назад)
DEX SMITH IS AN 80 YEAR OLD WOMAN.
RICK SWEET (4 месяца назад)
He wants to get women in his bed.
KiarraSari (4 месяца назад)
Thank you.
Simone D'Angelo (4 месяца назад)
Errata corrige: YOU'RE WRONG!!!
Simone D'Angelo (4 месяца назад)
Are you sure? I think you're wrong...
WolfLover2K16 (4 месяца назад)
He came to our school to give a talk about this. Very good talk, but a lot of guys yelled at him for being anti-male. Entirely not his point. Someone else threw a tampon (unused) at him :(
lachdach (3 месяца назад)
WolfLover2K16 hahaha what a good school
Governor Wallace (4 месяца назад)
Realize that what (((Jackson Katz))) is spreading is ideological and not honestly held opinion. This is what his kind do.
Jaishree Singh (4 месяца назад)
His message rings loud and clear...
Fenna Bisi (4 месяца назад)
The language analogy only works for English though unfortunately. Being Italian I have to say that in italian that doesn’t work.
Peachypink (4 месяца назад)
Good speech. I like how he said both men and women need to start working together instead of being in opposition. Much of what I see today regarding this issue is both sexes in opposition to one another.
bob brooks (5 месяцев назад)
I have never seen a site with more cucks than this one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
You're the only one I spot.
Lucy White (5 месяцев назад)
Love this guy. Thank you.
Carrots5Ever (5 месяцев назад)
ya so I say its humanities issues and we must all work together to help everyone equally. maybe that's just me....
Jo Tyson (6 месяцев назад)
I love this man
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The average man or woman may want to "fix" the opposite gender, being tired of the dysfunction, but Liberated Men want to liberate women, and liberated women want to liberate men.
McMahonHater (6 месяцев назад)
Katz is a cuck.
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
No you're one.
sam fisher (6 месяцев назад)
I don't care about women's leadership. Women are violent themselves. This is why I do not believe in equality. It is toxic and real issues are ignore. Stand up and rise against equality.
Svetlana McCabe (6 месяцев назад)
Great speech and yes we need men to speak out!!!
Jeremy Kabamba (6 месяцев назад)
Master Simp
avleen gill (3 месяца назад)
Who you?
Karina Guerra (6 месяцев назад)
lOve this guy!
Johnny Blotus (3 месяца назад)
You have a thing for liars?
Jae Lynn (6 месяцев назад)
Right on man!! This dude is a man!
Johnny Blotus (3 месяца назад)
He's definitely some kind of hominid
Jae Lynn (6 месяцев назад)
The majority of these "monster men" were victims of abuse as kids. They are doing what was done to them. That's where we need to intervene and if we REALLY want to fix this problem then we would have to violate some rights of people. There are probably hundreds of thousands of kids locked away hidden that are being abused and that sickens me! I wish I could do something. I wish I was able to assist the cops in some way!!
Grouchy Smurf (7 месяцев назад)
I JUST FARTED AND IT STINKS REALLY BAD

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