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No Sex Marriage – Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating and Shame | Maureen McGrath | TEDxStanleyPark

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Love? Marriage? Sex? Can a married couple have all three? Perhaps it’s unrealistic since so many marriages end in divorce today. Why is that? One reason might be that a reported 20% of all marriages are sexless and that number is rising. Why have we lost the lust in our marriages? Is it technology, is it trust? More importantly, how can we “get back at it” in our marriages today? Maureen McGrath - nursetalk@hotmail.com - hosts the Sunday Night Sex Show on News Talk 980 CKNW. She is a Registered Nurse, Sex Educator and author of “Sex & Health". This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Prime Captain (7 часов назад)
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vmwindustries (8 часов назад)
14k giving a thumbs down? Religious beliefs?
vmwindustries (8 часов назад)
Three times a year....and I don't cheat...all I want is to make love to my wife. I always spend extra 15 minutes on caressing her first. If you know what I mean.
Barzak (19 часов назад)
This lady is awesome
Sean Gonzalez (1 день назад)
terrible dad jokes
klaw547 (1 день назад)
Yep she has my vote for president
Sriram Thodla (1 день назад)
She clearly has a lot of knowledge but anyone else having a hard time following the message because her delivery is so poor and arm movements incredibly distracting?
Yes, me. +Sriram Thodia
Stephen Kholer (1 день назад)
Reading the comments makes me feel extremely lucky. My wife and I have been together for 16 years, married for 12, and we are still hot for each after all this time. If I had to give one piece of advice, it'd have to be communicate. Communicate, communicate, communicate. We talk... all the time... about what we like, what we don't like. We try new things sometimes. If we feel the other person is becoming disinterested, we talk about how we feel. Not only does it keep any issues from festering and causing larger problems, but we usually find that we're feeling the same way, and this allows us to help each other. I know I can come to her about anything, and she knows she can come to me. I'm not wanting to seem like I'm boasting. Just reading all of the comments from people with problems, I thought I'd share our story in the hopes of helping.
Magdalena Jegen (1 день назад)
How does she believe she’s an Irish catholic girl while having a massive American accent. You’re American, you’re not anything like a person who grew up in Ireland. That’s what makes you Irish.
ECLECTICNOW (1 день назад)
This is all over the place. There's no solid point. I am over half done and I still don't see her overall point.
Michael Franz (2 дня назад)
Marriage? No thanks. I would rather look for a girl I hate and buy her half a house.
Dylan Fowler (2 дня назад)
You can tell this woman has worked on more cruise ships than I've had hot dinners.
Dylan Fowler (1 день назад)
+Maureen McGrath - Thought Leader & Clinical Care Expert lol.
Thank you so much. That is so sweet of you to say. +Dylan Fowler
Dylan Fowler (1 день назад)
+Maureen McGrath - Thought Leader & Clinical Care Expert you look like you been on millions of Rocky liners.
Never been on one in my life. +Dylan Fowler
Mike Stand (2 дня назад)
the 3 rings of marriage - the engagement ring, the wedding ring and the suffering!
Matthews Life Crisis (2 дня назад)
“Pay more attention to your spouse, than you do your Smartphone” F A C T S
rozan jowkowski (3 дня назад)
don't marry hypergamous western women go to asia or eastern europe and find feminine submissive women
Mario Torres (3 дня назад)
14k dislikes??? I wonder how many incels are in those 14k.
Jennifer Boehm (3 дня назад)
Gentlemen...It's a want, not a need. It's a luxury. Learn to do without.
spruceguitar (3 дня назад)
LGB became LGBT LGBT becam LGBTQ (if you’re even questioning! take a sit over here) LGBTQ became LGBTQI Lemme make it easy for you from the year 2035: It’s now called: LGBTQIURIECHARIBZMNFD Anyone take a guess...?
Roman Bcn (3 дня назад)
I d say it is a totally unrealistic talk, too old school, too out of date. woman over 50s will love it.
Rad Thom (3 дня назад)
Go2asia mgtow
Moni Que W (3 дня назад)
This was a very interesting TED talk it reminded me of stand- up! 🤣
Sebastian Smith (3 дня назад)
Lady Diane?
sfincione2000 (3 дня назад)
I can't look at her speaking - she doesn't know what to do with her hands and so keeps her arms up in this idiotic position and I keep thinking about a doctor just having scrummed up and about to enter the operating theatre.
EVSUTRA (4 дня назад)
Good thing im not married 😜
Bikemancody (4 дня назад)
Wow, this was horrible.
Pushpinder Pixie (4 дня назад)
Marriage is a complete ripoff
Rebecca Murphy (4 дня назад)
how does communication bring back the PEA?
michael fowler (4 дня назад)
Go mgtow.
kot07111 (4 дня назад)
14:01 "the HARD truth is..."..................nice pun
James Hodgson (4 дня назад)
Couldn’t live like that - I’m 52 and my wife is 57 (still attractive and has a good body) been married for 27 years and are at it like rabbits, she bangs like a barn door in a storm. We can’t get enough of each other- love her to bits and it gets better every time. She’s amazing and my best friend and a great cook too. I couldn’t stay in a sexless marriage - no way!
Chris Rock (4 дня назад)
Speak for yourself lady. 20 years in and good to go. Twice a week and it's always as exciting as it was the first few years.
Cachi - (4 дня назад)
She’s making me dizzy with all this leg balancing...
jason morgen (4 дня назад)
Women giving advies on men always so funny
Actually, I was giving this advise to women. +jason morgen
elQueFaltaba (4 дня назад)
Good talk, excellent Irish sense of humor. Thank you Maureen. Now, anyone knows why YouTube translates both the title and description of the video for me to Spanish? Is it in any setting? Is this something the owner of the video can do? In any case .. why spoon feed us with a Spanish title and description, when the talk is in English? (yes, I know about subtitles, no, I don't need to use them .. )
I'mNotYourMirror (5 дней назад)
Just when I thought this talk couldn't get any worse, the camera angle shifted to show her backside...
Apostle TQ SYLVESTER (5 дней назад)
My only issue with this presentation is that she made it seem like women are the only ones neglecting their husbands. What about the husbands who neglect their wives? It goes both ways.
So true. Men do ignore their wives and it is even more disheartening. +Apostle TQ SYLVESTER
Bobby Daoust (5 дней назад)
How about a bitchless relationship?
Pe Wu (5 дней назад)
Thats why she fucks all my coleagues?
Anthony Taranto (5 дней назад)
Is she gonna eat that invisible footlong she's been holding the whole talk?
steven holmes (5 дней назад)
I'm dizzy
Cody (5 дней назад)
THIS TURNED INTO A MAN BASHING SESSION REAL QUICK. I CAN'T EVEN WATCH TED TALK ANYMORE. THEY JUST GET THESE LOONY TUNE PEOPLE TO TALK ABOUT THESE IMPORTANT SUBJECTS. IT IS MADDENING
Zachary Ziobro (5 дней назад)
7:06 great reaction to being on screen hahaha
GodofWarChuka (5 дней назад)
I’ve been divorced for a number of years now. This shows up in my recommended, and I watched it.
Mike Clemat (5 дней назад)
Why she walking like that 😂??
Andora michi (5 дней назад)
What if it is the other way around? Can anybody help me? I feel so alone sad broken and idk.. I feel so so bad about myself. I don't know if i should continue this relationship or not? Why is it always about men?? We women had so much problem too i have never had any solution to this.. Can someone please help me
Dream Chasers (5 дней назад)
If you watch more than 5 mins of this video, your relationship isn't going to work out.
Hannah A. Gehrels (5 дней назад)
She’s excellent.
H. T. (6 дней назад)
How about no marriage at all? Can't have that?
Salty Bear (6 дней назад)
Damn.... I got it 👍.
Johnny Pena (6 дней назад)
A sexless marriage is like a car with no gas.
Banglaroad (6 дней назад)
she's swaying left and right like a chained elephant...........wonder why?
Banglaroad (6 дней назад)
so lame...........she should see sexologist
Steven Dombrowski (6 дней назад)
What’s the intro song?
Banglaroad (6 дней назад)
she must stop talking like a robot...........
Eme Ele (6 дней назад)
Las Gringas son un Asco en la Cama!
Eric Weeber (6 дней назад)
I must be in the low percentages. I get it pretty regular and my wife has already gone through menopause and we are in our mid 50s. Sorry for those who dont but I do agree with those saying ask for it and if not responsive one night take your time and be gentle with it. It does happen but if you quit paying attention it does tend to drift. Make it happen has pretty good returns for both of you. Long baths, slow massages, watch a funny movie. Do what it takes, understanding and patience.
khristien Pennanen (7 дней назад)
Oof stress does it to me it sucks
angle sharma (7 дней назад)
I like S3x....
Darrell smith (7 дней назад)
17 million views — damn —
counsellor1956 (7 дней назад)
Lost me at "man-cold"...
alex surratt (7 дней назад)
Is this person married?
servant for Yeshuah JESUS GOD (7 дней назад)
No fornicator liar blasphemy thief will inherit the kingdom of God!
Simon Coulson (7 дней назад)
servant for Yeshuah JESUS GOD Get a life weirdo.
Mags Arkadiusz (7 дней назад)
Yes bravo!!
Rich Hill (7 дней назад)
What an old moron.
HeathInClearLake (7 дней назад)
I was all ready to rip into this speaker for being the standardized man-basher., but eventually she gets around to it. Each person has multiple roles to play in life, and it's best to understand those roles and compartmentalize them. Just because you got married, doesn't mean you stop being your other's boyfriend or girlfriend. I've seen too many people lose their spouse to parenthood. They become a child's parent, lose sight of all of the other roles, and in time that leads to destruction. You can spot doomed marriages these days. I pity all the men stuck with women who are in permanent mommy-mode. I don't blame them for cheating.
Jake S (7 дней назад)
Women just dont want it after they get married. Many use it to snag a man and get married.
Nicholas Woolfenden (7 дней назад)
Disappointing. Went nowhere. Just virtue signalling rubbish.
Gregory Mandara (8 дней назад)
Marriage is a legal, binding CONTRACT, between two individuals. Kinda takes the fie outta the whole thing, if ya ask me. Once you bring the government into the bedroom, you're done, son. This talk is for the LADIES. Bye!
Its actually more for men.
Jason Roberts (8 дней назад)
MGTOW...take my advice.... its depressing having a wife who doesn't even know you exist
Jahigro e (8 дней назад)
Why did I click on this video?????
Billy Kidd (8 дней назад)
A HARD KOCK HAS NO WRINKLES
Don Mooney (8 дней назад)
She's probably a fun wife. Haha
jerry pride (8 дней назад)
Interesting!!! I really couldn't find anything with this talk i could refute
Matthew P. Chapdelaine Productions (8 дней назад)
Two objects in motion, will stay in motion.
Matthew P. Chapdelaine Productions (8 дней назад)
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syborg71 (8 дней назад)
Other than her comment on thinking about others in your head (which as a Christian, I believe to be adultery of the heart) then i pretty much agree with this ladies talk..
Klaus Schreyer (8 дней назад)
What do Women bring to the Table Besides their Problems and their Snatch
Their brains. +Klaus Schreyer Having trouble? What a surprise.
Hugh Mann (8 дней назад)
If I can’t keep the plain in the air for the duration of the whole ride, maybe it’s because the plain gained 40 lbs.
Stevo's YouTube (9 дней назад)
She basically explains in the first 3mins why long term relationships aren't natural.
Alistair Davies (9 дней назад)
The first thing my wife does after getting washed is go on Facebook. Absolutely rediculous. If it was not for my business needs I'd happily dump the mobile phones
Sad. +Alistair Davies. It may be an addiction by now.
Luz Noel (9 дней назад)
DELET
Devbo Slice (9 дней назад)
Yeah, ask any of the 15 woman I have been with how satisfied they were before I came. Minus the few that got away because they were unsatisfied with their husbands.
oversteer46 (9 дней назад)
Why is she swaying from side to side? What is wrong with her? It’s so annoying.
Honestly, that's another story. I was trying to avoid my stalker in the audience. +oversteer46
James Coyle (9 дней назад)
Change your partner every 10 years problem solved
Billy Kidd (10 дней назад)
You should get a farm to put those CALFS ON !!!!!
May not look it here, but I have the skinniest legs. LOL!+Billy Kidd
Carl Mitchell (10 дней назад)
This doesn’t help anyone.
Au contrare. +Carl Mitchell
Ed 1 (10 дней назад)
Mgtow
Mr Man (10 дней назад)
Everyone, go watch Tom Leykis.
Antonio Minaya (10 дней назад)
idiotik
Yaqub Tareen (10 дней назад)
Question, who is married & happy or not? Explain your reason...
Hillbilly University (10 дней назад)
I believe we value it entirely too much... would you feel the same (folks complaining about the lack of, I mean) if a medical condition made it so it wasn't possible. The mental, habitual behavior is what creates the cravings and the issues concerning the matter. The physical part can be handled on your own. Just don't get caught in the trap of thinking about other people while you handle that. I know that's tough, but everything can be done in practice to create new mental habits. Then, love her/him with everything else you have. That's my thoughts anyway. I know people have their own, but there's something to consider from a very happily married man. <<<<< and that statement, is no lie. It isn't buried in religious mumbo jumbo, filled with fantastical stories or without issues. There is a place in your heart where you love someone very deeply, and there is a place deep within where you lust after a lot of things, but there is a place in your soul and in your mind where you study people you love and lust, with empathy. Where you come to know them as humans. Just an equally troubled, equally imperfect human. This is the place where you learn to give a little, or a lot sometimes, and just let some things go. This is also the place where things come back that maybe left the relationship. There is something really attractive about a real partner, and a real best friend. And, When you die, when you're on your death bed. Who do you want near you??? someone you have learned to love without criticism and they have, therefore, learned to love you the same through emulation - or someone you've had a lot of sex with? (just an example, but insert many other superficial things) - Because the truth is, a superficial relationship will not last through a battle with a terminal illness or the unattractiveness of aging.
robotoda2000 (10 дней назад)
I'm never getting married.
Madhu Reddy (10 дней назад)
Men’s are so selfish 💦lol
Yuri Ramirez (10 дней назад)
I’ve gone on strike; whenever she wants it, I say I’m not in the mood. I’m tired of getting rejected so I’m turning the tables around for a change. Edit: she wants it maybe once a month...if that.
Shoa (1 день назад)
Stop playing games. You know what you value. Stand up for that, and say what you want. Then leave when it is safe to do so. Do it quietly and politely.
Md. Abdulla al Mamun (11 дней назад)
this is hilarious to listen ..... :)
Onyapidi (11 дней назад)
17:41 that sculpture or is it a drawing? just above letter X in red, a the back of the stage...is kinda creepy! Lol
Kirk Morris (4 дня назад)
A totem pole it was in British Columbia. Its eagle heads in a aboriginal art style
deepfriedsammich (11 дней назад)
She also seems to buy into the Billy Joel lyric that "Catholic girls start much too late..." Again, I'm wondering where she went to school. I'm in my 50's. I was Catholic school educated. Sorry Maureen, Catholic girls are faster and they tend to be kinkier, too.
No I don't. +deepfriedsammich
Lord Humongus (11 дней назад)
MGTOW! All you Beta Cucks!
Marco Medina (11 дней назад)
It is an old movie, but very helpfull if you're having a complicated marriage, it might help, guides you to an other way to see things inside marriage: "fireproof"
DIO GALLARDO (11 дней назад)
MGTOW
Carlos Carbonell (11 дней назад)
I can't get over how she just makes the same hand gesture over and over
You can't? +Carlos Carbonell

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